I was recently working with someone assigned to our career transitional services practice, helping them to put together a list of references willing to write recommendation letters. This process set me thinking about what makes a really good, really helpful recommendation letter.
1) Written references are not outmoded. For one thing, they are permanent. They are on paper, so to speak. Once you make the final stages of any interview cycle, references will be requested. You have the advantage of being able to provide written references that can be easily followed up with a phone call or email. Getting any leg up you can is helpful.
2) Yes, you can ask for written references. Most companies have rules about current employees providing references for other employees on company letterhead. However, people can write reference letters on their “personal” letterhead, which means they can write:
John/Jane Smith
123 Main Street
Anytown, USA 01010
at the top of any Word document and then go to town describing how wonderful you are.
Now, if you have people who are not comfortable giving you a written reference but are willing to give a verbal one, don’t despair. Keep an up-to-date list of these individuals and every so often, check with them to ensure that they are still willing and able to provide you with good references and recommendations.
3) Get references from the recently departed. If you find your recent colleagues still working for your former employer are squeamish about writing references, ask those you respect who have recently left the firm. They are most likely not under any such strictures and can put pen to paper for your benefit.
4) Strike a balance among those providing you with references. If possible, the majority of your references should be from those you reported to. However, in this age of 90, 180, 270 and 360 review cycles, it helps to have at least one from a peer and, if possible, one from someone who reported to you. Hopefully, this shows you are not in the running for this year’s Captain Bligh Award and are able to manage correctly not just up, but down and sideways. See how flexible you are?
5) Guide the focus of your different letters, if possible. A friend who heads up the entire North American HR function for a major company and who teaches business ethics suggests trying to get your various references to focus on and emphasize one main area of your capabilities. He says that from the HR perspective, not much stock is put into “generic” letters. The point here is to get people to be specific in their comments, not just “he/she’s a great guy, blah, blah.” And giving people an idea of what to focus on is often welcome, as people don’t always know where and how to start singing your praises.

